An old post with corrected citations.
The Transfiguration, Faith and Family Matters
If a person wants to probe the mystery of the life of Jesus,
one might find it helpful to think of the Transfiguration of Jesus as it must
have impacted the Holy Apostles, Peter, James and John, but especially Peter.
It is clear, is it not, that this experience dramatically
affected the Apostles’ way of winning converts to Christ? When they started to
evangelize after the Resurrection, the
Transfiguration had made them stronger in tough times.
Understanding this experience can help us be better teachers of the
faith.
As we think of the climb up the mountain, who knows, maybe
Peter was having a good bit of doubt at this point. Maybe he was saying, "One
minute you treat me like a prince, you call me the 'Rock of your Church.' The
next minute, when I want to stop you from dying, you treat me like the enemy
and call me Satan. What is all this about?" Then, they get up on the mountain
there and Peter, James and John have this spectacular experience of seeing
Jesus shining, standing with Moses and Elijah.
This whole scene is capped with the voice from the cloud,
“This is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased. Listen to him.”
Ok, let’s take a step back then, and see what we can
learn. How does the Transfiguration
change us, so to speak? How can we learn
from the Apostles, especially St. Peter? I want you to ask yourself what you
might learn about transmitting the faith in your family from this experience.
There is a recent study published in a book called “Families
and Faith: How Religion is Passed Down Across Generations,” (Oxford) by Vern
Bengston, with Norella Putney and Susan Harris.
Bengston and his crew follow 350 families composed of 3500 individuals
over several generations.
“Church
attendance in the United States hit a peak in the period 1950-59. Following
that there was a gradual decline in the 1960s and a sharp decrease in the
following decade.
Immigration from
Hispanic countries has offset the numbers of Catholics leaving the Church, but
what Bengtson singled out was the growth in the number of ‘nones,’ that is,
those who say they have no religious affiliation. By 2012 they represented
almost 20% of the adult population.”
The Zenit article
then makes a number of observations from the book about the impact of family on
the transmission of religion:
Nevertheless, the type of
family life does influence the degree to which religious faith is passed on.
Warm, affectionate parenting is most likely to result in the successful
transmission of religion, Bengtson noted. This was particularly true for
relations with fathers, he added.
….Grandparents can have
considerable influence and are often more important regarding the religiosity
of their grandchildren than is recognized.
Apart from the type of
parenting, there are other family situations that have an important impact on
the transmission of religion.
Parents in a same-faith
marriage are more likely to achieve religious continuity across generations.
This is particularly true when both parents are actively religious and religion
plays an important role in their lives.
Divorce often, but not always, is a disruptive force in the
transmission of religious traditions.
Here are three
points to consider for faith in the family.
My first point: Don’t let the crosses in your life be a
stumbling block for your children’s faith.
Peter, in particular, has learned that you cannot reject the Cross
without turning your back on God’s plan.
In doing so you become the enemy of God.
If you have been turning away from the Cross, get back to it. Get back
to Jesus. When the going gets tough, don’t run. Let our blessed Lord show you
the true meaning of the crosses in life. If you have difficulties, crosses,
that are impacting the way you live and present the faith in the family, fight
the devil. Remember, he will use anything to win the souls of your children
including making you think you are unhappy, causing financial difficulties and
any other problems that can take your mind off the most important things in life. All the time you are
thinking about how miserable you are, have you ever thought that maybe that is
just the devil’s way of taking your children to hell? If you need help to get
on the right footing, seek it out. All
things are possible with Christ.
Second: If you are
following your own ideas about what the faith ought to be, you need conversion.
The Apostles come to a deeper knowledge of who this Jesus is. He is like Moses and Elijah, but even the
voice from the cloud tells them that He is greater. If they had any questions
about how to interpret the law and the prophets before this, they do not have
any now.
This is important for us.
Many times, people dip a finger into the Bible and come up with a morsel
from one of the prophets or from the law and they want to judge that the Church
has made a mistake.
But, if we are supposed to listen to Jesus, then we know that the Church,
founded on the Rock of Peter, is the one against whom the gates of the
netherworld cannot prevail. So those Catholics
who depart from this haven of safety, the One Holy Catholic Church, are living by following their own private interpretations. Don’t confuse the issue about
those born into other communities of faith. God can handle that. That’s not
your problem right now. I am talking about your Catholic children. Peter’s experience
with his own faith propelled him to be very clear about the duties of his
office. In 2 Peter 1:20 he tells us to
“know this, first of all, that there is no prophecy of scripture that is a
matter of personal interpretation.” I
ask you, what better lesson could Peter have had than these events to cause him
to write this to us? Remember Peter also
warns in chapter 3 v. 16 that in the letters of Paul there are some things that
are hard to understand that the ignorant and unstable distort to their own
destruction, just as they do the other scriptures.
My final point: You see the Risen Lord at each Holy Mass
and it is your duty to lead others to Him.
I think you should know that Jesus expects you to speak about him in
your life. You are a prophet, a teacher,
a priest, and a missionary to your children. You have a position in your
current situation that requires that you speak of what you have seen and heard.
This, my friend, is really very simple. You are standing at the end of a line. If you
do not attempt to bring some one to Christ that you are close to, what do you
suppose will happen to them and to the Church? If you do not go to those around
you and bring the Lord to them, that line, that part of the Church ends with you.
Now, if the Father is well-pleased with Jesus and tells us
so. Shouldn’t we be able to tell
others. If God can say how wonderful his
Son is, won’t you do it, too?